Welcome to Heidi's Wonderful World of Adult Pleasures
Heidi: Your Permanent Temporary Girlfriend -- Available for Men 35 and Older
INTRODUCTION:
I am glad you decided to click that link in my posting that led you here. This is my personal website. My name is Heidi. Please read through my website before sending a text to me. Do not call me -- we will arrange a specific time for a phone call by text.
In this first section I will present some very basic information. It is likely you will learn a lot about me, but it is also likely you will learn a lot about yourself and your life!! This is especially true if you have a wife over the age of 45.
I just changed my location. I now have two new locations: first, I can host in a spa on Oakland Park Blvd near Federal Highway in Ft. Lauderdale from 10 am until 6 pm; second, I can host in my personal condo in Pompano Beach from 7 pm until 10 pm.
To contact me initially, please send an email to me (and please include the information that I request below) to: HeidiHoover1970@GMail.Com
or send a text to 772-940-6488. When you contact me, I ask that you provide this information: your first name, your age, your general occupation, which session you want, what in particular you like about my website, and include a photo of yourself.
My system for meeting works like this: I ask that you read most or all of my website so you understand my services and donations and what I am looking for. Then we can email a few times to set a day and time to meet at my place. I will call you at a day and time we agree for a call before our scheduled time to meet to give you directions to my place. As I put all the details in this website, there should be no need for explicit talk nor to discuss services/donations.
My donations are listed below. They are basically $200 for one half hour of attention or $300 for one hour of attention or $500 for two hours of attention or $700 for three hours of attention. I describe below what we will be doing during our time together, so please be sure to read those sections so you are clear on expectations.
I have special treatments available for Erectile Dysfunction (ED) and Premature Ejaculation (PE) issues and also Delayed Ejaculation (DE) issues. I will describe those below. If you need those services, let me know.
Please allow me to introduce myself to you. I am a reasonably attractive 63-year old former model with blonde hair, 36DDD breasts and great curves. I am an attractive woman with a good body. All of those things you can see with your own eyes.
What is less visible is my sparkling personality! I am engaging, witty, unpretentious, intelligent, and well rounded. I am a “normal” gal: that is to say, I am disease, drug and drama free, I have a nice career, a great social life, and I have good relations with my family. I stay closely tuned to current events and to exploring world cultures. I speak five languages; I was born in Eastern Europe.
I am an excellent conversationalist and can hold my own with most people. I have a very modern, cosmopolitan outlook. I have traveled extensively. Perhaps one of my most important qualities is my love of meeting new friends! My enthusiasm is contagious and you’ll soon join me in a world of excitement and fun.
You have so many choices that it should be easy for you to find exactly what you are looking for!! I am writing this description of me to help you decide if I am the right match for you. As I look through all the ads, I am trying to think of how to describe how I fit in and what I am like and what I offer.
My sessions are designed for emotional support in addition to the usual sexual services. I want us to become lifelong best friends -- friends with benefits they call it. Not just a meaningless round of quick sex, but a true romantic encounter. An emotionally satisfying meeting that leaves you truly happy.
The four most important things about me are these: first, I am dedicated to making you feel good about yourself on many levels, not just on a sexual level. Second, I love everything about sex. The result is that I love sloppy blow jobs, and I love having my pussy licked (gently). Third, I like gentle love-making, not rough. I will be gentle with you and I ask that you be gentle with me. Fourth, I am the complete package. That starts with passionate deep French kissing. I do not think it is possible to have a great love-making session without great passionate deep French kissing.
THE RIGHT STUFF:
When man tackles a project, he likes to have the right stuff to do the project right and make sure everything goes well. It is the same with me: I like to have the right stuff.
What is the right stuff to have for a great BBBJ (Bare Back Blow Job, Fellatio, a bare blow job with no condom)? Three things: First, a large mouth so the teeth are not an issue. I have a huge mouth; you will never feel my teeth on your cock. Second, large and soft lips. I have perhaps the largest and softest lips you will ever come across in your lifetime!! Third, a deep throat. They call it deep throat -- the ability to slide your cock all the way into my mouth and down my throat.
Of course, my mouth and lips are also great for another important part of our time together: DFK -- Deep French Kissing! I can Deep French Kiss to Belgium!!!
What is the right stuff to have for a great DATY session (Dine at the Y; cunnilingus; oral sex for me; your tongue on/in my pussy)? A great pussy, of course. That means an immaculately clean pussy that has no smell and tastes great. A pussy that has a soft clitoris that reacts well to soft, loving kisses, with soft moans to show the pleasure being received. And when kissed long enough, maybe some squirting.
What is the right stuff to have for vaginal intercourse? A very tight pussy, of course. A tiny pussy. A pussy that never bore children and was never stretched. Because my pussy is so extremely tight, it is important that you be very gentle and slow and patient!!!
And finally, the absolutely most important thing to have: a great attitude. An attitude about pleasing you in the way you want to be pleased (in a way that perhaps you have never been pleased before and perhaps don't even know about. An attitude of both of us receiving mutual pleasures. An attitude of loving to suck on your cock. Most women merely accept your cock in their mouths; I love having your cock in my mouth. There is a huge difference and it will make a huge difference to you too. Maybe you have never had a great, sloppy blow job before. Maybe you have never had a great prostate massage while receiving a blow job before. Maybe you have never had a combination of great Deep French Kissing followed by a great, sloppy blow job with a prostate massage before.
I HAVE A MAN'S SEX DRIVE:
Let me say all that in a slightly different way. I am a woman but I have the high sex drive that nearly all men have. Men fantasize about women's pussies all day; I fantasize about men's cocks all day. Men love to play with a pussy; I love to play with a cock. As much as you want to play with my pussy is how much I want to play with your cock. I am a man's dreams come to life!
ABOUT MEN AND WOMEN:
I know you are likely to be contemplating many things right now as you read this. Maybe you have never done this before or you have a wife at home that you love, but there is something lacking? I'm just not sure how people could jump right into this without some forethought. When a man "steps out" for the first time, he has feelings of guilt, shame and remorse. We are programmed from birth to feel that all sexual pleasures are wrong, and later we are programmed to feel that all pleasures shared with anyone other than our spouse are wrong. Men would feel that taking a woman other than a wife out to dinner would be a moral wrong, much more so the pleasure of being touched.
You may be a single man that just wants some companionship with no strings attached. Either way, in the real world, men cannot live without the touch of a woman, but a woman that is in a relationship after a certain age, typically couldn't care less about the touch from their man. That's the real world, not the myths that abound about how men are cold and emotionless but women are very emotionally needy.
Our society has very strange rules regarding being touched by another. We are brought up with some really messed up values, as you are learning. We only have 5 senses. We are allowed to please our sense of sight with beautiful things (but frowned upon for looking at pornography, although we all love it). We are allowed to please our sense of sound with any form of music. We are allowed to please our sense of taste with great food and drink. We are allowed to please our sense of smell with perfumes, incense, etc. But when it comes to our sense of feeling, we are prohibited outside of the bonds of a committed relationship and then eventually limited in that relationship.
So it is no surprise that when a relationship-bound woman loses her natural hormonal drives after menopause she readily announces she is done with all things sexual forever and expects her horny husband who, unlike her, is not hormone-challenged) to follow suit. If her husband was in a car accident (or caught Covid-19) and lost his senses of taste and smell and decided to live on hamburgers and french fries for the rest of his life, would it be unfair of him to expect her to give up all good foods and drinks forever and live only on hamburgers and French fries like him?
Let me explain what almost no one knows. When humans are 8 to 10 years old, they do not like members of the opposite sex. Hormones control this. "Girls are yucky" is what boys say at those ages and ""boys are yucky" is what girls say at those ages. But when humans are 16 to 18, they love members of the opposite sex. Boys want girls and girls want boys. Hormones control this. The result: soon boys and girls want to get married and have a lot of sex. Hormones control this. When women reach the age of 45 they enter the beginnings of menopause. Women typically lose all interest in boys, all interest in romance, passion, affection, attention, and sex. "Men are yucky" is how they feel. The result is that wives do not want touches or kisses or sex or attention.
All humans were pretty much made like this (maybe 4% are not; they are gay or whatever). Why were humans made like this? One reason: women stop having babies so they can dedicate their lives to being good grandmothers who help raise their grand-kids. Men will still have the same high libido until the age of 120 that they had at 18; their purpose is to go off and marry young women and start second families. Same as the other 5 species of mammals that have menopause.
If you are a man with a wife over 45, you probably have noticed a significant drop in her libido. That is not her fault. It is not her intention. It is how her hormones control her. But you bear the brunt of the pain this causes. It is you left without romance, passion, affection, attention, and sex. You are left without touches or kisses or sex or attention.
When you are ready to take the plunge, let me know. Just drop me an email and we can start this adventure. You will indulge your sense of touch without all the guilt, because we will keep this as purely entertainment. I am here to fulfill your need for romance, passion, affection, attention, sex, touches, and kisses.
Ask any female provider on any site to explain what I have explained above. None can. I have been a provider for 31 years. I understand men. I understand women. I understand life.
If a female provider does not understand what I have explained above, she likely cannot provide the solutions that I can provide. I know what a man needs and I can provide the solutions.
I can restore your self-confidence. I can make you feel valued again. This is a skill that pretty much no woman under the age of 50 can provide. And of course I can provide the sexual services you want -- passionate deep French kisses, the world's greatest bare back blow jobs, the world's greatest DATY (Dine-At-The-Y; cunnilingus) -- as I have an exceptionally small and tight pussy that is very clean and tasty, and great vaginal sex (with a condom; never without a condom). No anal sex ever.
If you have read this introduction above and you recognize what I have been saying, then I may be a perfect solution for you.
So, let’s begin to explore the possibilities of this new relationship between you and I. Email me and introduce yourself. I need some basic information to start any communications. Please send an email to me (and please include the information that I request below) to: HeidiHoover1970@GMail.Com or send a text to 772-940-6488. When you contact me, I ask that you provide this information: your first name, your age, your general occupation, which session you want, what in particular you like about my website, and include a photo of yourself. This is my screening process. I cannot see anyone without this info. It’s strictly a safety issue. Most quality, legitimate and reliable practitioners have some sort of screening system in place as a way of weeding out undesirable clients...it's called having standards. I have them, and I hope you do as well. You may not be getting a quality, safe service if you book time with someone who accepts anyone and everyone into their space. In fact, you may be asking for trouble. Because I value myself, my privacy, and my safety, I need to know that you are safe and with positive intentions.
I also require that you send by email or text a photo of yourself. When you arrive, I expect you to look like the photo you sent! This is a safety issue for me.
When we first meet, let us spend 5 or 10 minutes talking and getting comfortable with each other. I know getting to know each other will take a little bit of time and may take several dates, but let’s take it slow and do this right. This is just like a first date and like you, I will have some nervous anticipation and so will you. The excitement of meeting someone new is comparable to Christmas morning for a child -- the anticipation, the excitement, will you love what’s inside that package, will it be a great gift or a flop???? It’s all good fun!! It reminds you that you can still feel like a kid sometimes!! I host in a gorgeous house. We can sit on the sofa and talk.
From here, we will move right into the fun part of our time together. The master bedroom is right behind the sofa.
Our time together will of course involve affectionate companionship, but will really be about much more than that. It will also be about me giving you the attention you want, the time listening to you that you want, the appreciation that you want, and the sensuous touches that you want. I will arouse all your physical senses to new heights! When I am done, every inch of your body will have been lovingly caressed and pampered.
This session, in its totality, is about making you feel loved and appreciated. There will be a lot of physical touching, stimulation, arousal, and pleasure peaks, to be sure, but none of these will be that memorable! If you want the big O, you can give one to yourself quite easily. What you can never give yourself is the feeling of affection and appreciation.
You want a wonderful experience with a beautiful woman who will be attentive, appreciative, understanding, loving. You will always remember how I made you feel as a man.
The emotional component is more important than the physical components. Gentlemen who are attracted to my ad are very intelligent – otherwise, they could not get through this many pages!! Also, gentlemen who call me are interested in a lot more than just a quick one-time fling – they are looking for friendship and companionship that will endure. They are looking for a perfect body rub girlfriend. If you are reading this right now and thinking "I don't want to read all this, where is her contact info", then I'm most likely not your gal....or rather you are not the guy I want to see. Sorry. I only want to entertain elite, intelligent gentlemen that want to slow down the pace of life (even for just a few hours) and really enjoy the pleasure of a woman's companionship and touch.
Men that come see me want that excitement that comes with romance and intrigue. We all want it. Remember how it feels to meet someone that you like, the butterflies that set residence in your stomach. It’s an amazing feeling and we struggle through life trying to recreate those wonderful relationships. We all know that a large part of the excitement is the initial conquest. We certainly all know that it is hard to keep that excitement alive in a marriage over the course of years. (And we all know that the easiest way to find it again is to start a new relationship.)
Of course, I know that you will probably have some nervousness. You are meeting someone new for the first time ever and you do not know what to expect. You do not know whether all will be as it is stated. I have the same apprehension about you! This is part of the excitement and a great start to this wonderful escape. At least two men have chickened out after coming to my house. They were frightened because there were 2 cars in the driveway. Three of us women host here, so we have three cars. We are not associated with law enforcement in any way. I think by now there should be reviews of us posted online!
WHAT ARE YOU REALLY LOOKING FOR?
Something drove you onto the internet looking for a beautiful woman to serve your pleasures. Do you know what factors really were driving you? You might think it was just a need for an orgasm, a release. But that cannot be all there was. After all, you could easily give yourself an orgasm, a release. And perhaps you often do. But you decided to look for a beautiful woman to do that for you! Why? I think I know the real reasons, so I will try to set forth some of my thoughts below.
My reasoning is very complex. My reasoning is based on the answer to the basic question: why are you coming to visit a service provider? You have probably asked yourself this same question. But you are only one man. You think you know the answer in your own mind: you and your wife have lost intimacy, your wife hit menopause and gave up on romance and passion, you and your wife “grew apart”, your wife lost her great figure and great beauty and is no longer as attractive as she once was, you want sex but your wife doesn’t, your wife doesn’t understand you, your wife has become a bitch, your wife won’t rub your back and tease you seductively the way your body needs in order to overcome ED issues, etc., etc., etc.!!
And so, based on your own particular interpretation of your “issue”, you think that you need the tender, loving touch of a beautiful woman (a body rub) or you think you need the full experience, the complete home run (the escort services). No doubt you have thought about this for a long, long, long time. This was not something that entered your mind for the first time today. It has been in the back of your mind for a long time, and it has been in the front of your mind for a while too. Perhaps you have even discussed this issue with a buddy or two. Perhaps they are in the same situation. Perhaps they told you about internet sites like EROS and SLIXA and TRYST and SKIPTHEGAMES and so on.
How many opinions have you heard on this issue? Your own, to be sure. Perhaps the opinion of a buddy or two. Maybe even a therapist. Maybe a book or an article, perhaps several. I do not want to say that I am the world’s foremost authority on this issue, but I do want to say that during the last few years I have heard literally hundreds of opinions on this issue. And I want to say that just about all the reasons I have heard, and this will probably include yours, are completely wrong.
You are not coming to see me because you need a physical release. You can do that yourself, and you probably do and probably often. You are not coming because you need sex. You could get that from your wife for a little asking, or if needed you could get that for a very, very low donation ($60!) from many providers, over and done in just 10 minutes.
What you want is something more than mere touching or quick sex. You want the loving adoration of a beautiful woman with an incredible body and a brilliant mind! You want a woman who will listen to you when you talk about the successes you have had in life; you want a woman who will listen to you when you talk about your day. You want a woman who will understand you. You want a woman who is mysterious, unknown, new. You want a new conquest.
Have you ever been around an old soldier and his wife when someone new enters the room? The old soldier begins to tell his story about landing on Normandy Beach during D-Day. His wife rolls her eyes and says, “Not that story again for the millionth time!” and leaves the room. The visitor listens enthralled. The visitor has never heard that story from anyone who landed on that Beach and listens with rapt attention. I’m willing to bet that your wife is a bit like that – she does not want to hear your stories, she does not want to hear about your day! And if I’m right, you probably don’t want to hear about hers either. That old soldier is not looking for a breast or a vagina: he is looking for an ear!!!! A loving, supportive, interested ear.
Do you remember your first conquest? It was thrilling and exciting, wasn’t it? The hunt and the chase are great fun. But after 10, 20, 30, 40 years, the thrill is gone. The honeymoon is long over. You miss it. You would love to have it back. But you know your limits. You know your consequences. You know that you would completely alter your life, basically ruin your life, by having an affair. So you have ruled out that route. You have decided upon a less risky course of action. You want to get what you want, what you are missing, but you do not want to give up everything you have to get it!
I have often heard, “I have a wonderful wife. We still love each other very much. I don’t want to get divorced, I don’t want to hurt her”, etc. I have even heard, “This was my wife’s idea. She wants me to visit girls and have my fun but just leave her alone.”
So you turned to the internet, thinking that having a beautiful woman give you a body rub with a nice release at the end would satisfy your needs, only to be terribly disappointed. Perhaps you visited a woman who offered escort services, thinking that would replace your wife as she existed in the early years of your marriage. But you were out the door in ten minutes and felt cheated, despite having your way with her. You even felt demeaned, belittled.
You have probably felt cheated every time you visited a woman. You felt cheated because you did not get what you wanted! Here is the surprise: you did not get what you really wanted because you did not know what you really wanted. Since you did not know what you really wanted, you did not ask for it. You did not know how to get what you really wanted. You could not verbalize it to yourself, let alone to a woman you had never met before. When you don’t know what you are looking for, you look in all the wrong places.
You thought you really wanted the touch of a beautiful woman or you thought you wanted sex with a beautiful woman. YOU WERE WRONG. You wanted much more than either of those two things. I’ll say what you really want: “You want the loving adoration of a beautiful woman with an incredible body and a brilliant mind!”
Let’s consider some of the bad experiences I have heard about, the horror stories of internet visits. Perhaps you have some you’d like to share. Many clients have told me about visiting absolutely gorgeous body rub providers but they left unhappy because the providers were emotionally cold, they gave “mechanical” body rubs. Their hands touched in all the right ways and all the right places, but they were like having a robot give a body rub – no human emotion, no human intimacy. Other clients have told me about visiting absolutely gorgeous escort providers but they left unhappy because the providers were emotionally cold, they did not enjoy themselves; they only wanted the man to have an orgasm as quickly as possible and kick him out the door moments later (no afterglow, no winding down). In some cases, the provider was stiff as a board and looked up at the ceiling and said, “Tell me when you’re done.” If you do not have a horror story to tell, you are a lucky man!
What is the common denominator of bad sessions: the woman lacked emotion. She lacked love. She was a robot. She just wanted the session to be over as quickly as possible. She had no interest whatsoever in you as a man; she only wanted your wallet. She did not want to hear your stories, about your successes, your life, your day. And she did not want to tell you anything about herself. She was with you for a very limited time for a very limited purpose. Give you an orgasm, collect a donation, and kick you out the door. You left with a big hole in your heart. You felt cheated, not because you were not touched, not because you did not have your way, but because you did not feel loved. When you left, you did not feel good about yourself. The visit was not an emotionally uplifting experience.
If you do not understand your real motivations in turning to the internet to look for a service provider, then it is unlikely you will ever be satisfied! You will not get what you really want because you do not know what you really want, and therefore do not seek what you really want and do not ask for what you really want.
Mere physical touching and physical pleasures are not what is really the most satisfying to a man. It takes a lot more. It takes an emotional connection. You don’t want a cold, emotionless “session” with someone who is “doing a job”! You want someone who is emotionally invested in you – someone who wants to share things about your life and what you do, your triumphs and successes. You want a lady who will listen to you! And you want to learn about her in return.
If you feel as I feel about this issue, then we will be a good match. If you only want a touch, devoid of emotion, then we will not be a good match. If you only want a quick release, devoid of emotion, then we will not be a good match.
But if you want to be touched by loving hands and to touch me in return with loving hands, if you want to be satisfied in those loving ways with a passionate, loving woman, then we will be a great match indeed. I am looking for an emotionally satisfying experience that will develop a lasting bond between us. I am not looking for a slam-dam-thank-you ma’am, meaningless one-time experience. I want to be your permanent temporary body rub girlfriend!
I would like to say that I believe in getting together for extended periods of time. Let’s be real – this will not be the first time you have ever conquered a lady, nor the first time I have been conquered! But I want this to be just as memorable for you and for me as that first time! Remember the song that has the lyric “It feels like the first time”? The writer of that song hit the nail on the head – there is never a time that we are more likely to remember than that first time.
Can you remember the times when getting together with a woman lasted 2 to 3 hours? Do you remember the anticipation, the slow gentle exploration of each other’s body, the spine-tingling excitement? Isn’t the teasing foreplay 99% of the fun? Yes, I know that most service providers -- body rub girls and escort girls -- want you to be gone within minutes of the time you arrive. Many gentlemen have explained those types of sessions to me. I almost feel as though I could write a book on them because I have heard them described to me so many times. And there is definitely a time and a place for them!! But that is not what I offer here. What I offer is one thing and one thing only – a recreation of the “FIRST TIME”!
I want all the gentle exploration. I want all the anticipation, all the excitement, all the passion, all the sensuous pleasure that long sessions provide. If you are in a rush because you need to get to the airport or get home or get back to the office, then I will not be the right gal for you!
It is pretty likely that you have spent time with more than one woman during the course of your life. Can you remember what made for the best episodes ever? What happened? What did you love the most? If you could waive a magic wand and make for a great, great episode, what elements would you want? What would happen? If you can just ask yourself those questions, let alone answer them, then I am probably a GREAT match for you!
The world’s greatest sexual experience is not just about sex – it is about making you feel great about yourself! It is about making you feel loved and appreciated. There will be a lot of mutual physical touching, stimulation, arousal, and an orgasm, to be sure, but none of these are memorable! If you want an orgasm, you can give one to yourself quite easily. In fact, most men give themselves one every day. What you can never give yourself is the feeling of love and appreciation.
You want a wonderful body rub experience with a beautiful woman who will be attentive, appreciative, understanding, loving. You will never remember the specific orgasm; rather, you will remember how I made you feel as a man.
The emotional component is ten times more important than the physical components. John Gray in his book “Men are From Mars, Women are From Venus” points out that the number one thing a man wants from a relationship with a woman is to be treated as competent. A wife should say things like, “Honey, you did a brilliant job mowing the grass; you did a fantastic job fixing the washing machine; you were so smart fixing that leak.” A man wants that more than he wants great sex!! You are probably the same!
I am not just in the sex business. I am also in the emotional support business. I do many of the things as a therapist, a counselor, a psychologist, a psychiatrist does; I am with you to listen and to be emotionally supportive.
Our time together will of course involve intimacy, but will really be about much more than that. It will also be about me giving you the attention you want, the time listening to you that you want, the appreciation that you want, and the sensuous touches that you want. I want to make you feel like a million dollars on multiple levels – as a romantic interest, as a friend, and finally as a sex object! Perhaps you will want to reciprocate!
Gentlemen who read my ad are obviously very intelligent – otherwise, they could not get through this many pages!! Also, gentlemen who call me are interested in a lot more than just a quick one-time fling – they are looking for friendship and companionship that will endure.
I would like to share some of my thoughts with you. I thought that this would be about one thing and one thing only. After all, I have heard throughout my life that men have only one thing on their minds every minute of every day and night – sex. I have read articles that claim that a man thinks about sex every 10 seconds!!! Of course men do not really think about sex that often. Men think about sex less than 10 times a day (compared to less than 5 times a day for women). I thought this would be a situation where I would open the door and a gentleman would want immediate sexual gratification. Now I know the reality.
The reality is more like this. You are reading this ad because you feel an innate need for female companionship. There is something missing in your life. You may be married, but that special romantic passion is not present any more. Your body is pushing you to find a woman with whom to share that special romantic passion once again. It is a basic male need – as basic as the need for air, water, food, shelter, and clothing. It is present in you every minute of every day. It drives you.
Everything a man does is done to impress a woman so she will be romantically attracted to him. In today’s world, men get an education so they can get great jobs so they can impress the women and get rewarded with the special romantic passion and sex they want. In short, since the beginning of time the main drive in men has been one thing -- sex.
Men don’t need to think about that one thing. It is hormonal. It drives every man every minute of every day. Ultimately, it does involve a male explosion. But I think that a lot more is involved than just that. After all, a man can create his own explosions easily and quickly (and most men do and do often!). There is something more, something “extra”. And that “extra” is the whole point. That “extra” is what drives men to turn to the internet to search for a provider. It is that “extra” that is everything.
That “extra” has been described in many books over the years. I will try to describe it from my point of view from what I have learned.
First, not that you are shallow, but you want a woman who is beautiful in the face, with beautiful large breasts, soft skin, a nice butt and long legs (and other nice equipment). That is natural. We all prefer the attractive to the unattractive, so don’t feel that it is inappropriate to prefer an attractive woman.
Second, you want a woman who appreciates you for who you are. You want to be appreciated for your accomplishments in life. You want to be with a woman who makes you feel special. You want a woman who thinks you are wonderful for who you are and what you have done. This too is natural to men. Women don’t usually feel a need to be appreciated in quite the same way. Men feel a basic need to be treated as being competent in what they do. A man feels very vulnerable when his woman fails to appreciate his competence. You want 100% acceptance and unconditional love.
Third, you want a woman who will pay 100% attention to you when you are together – no interruptions from cell phones, etc. This will become a private universe where no one else exists – just you and me, alone, together.
Fourth, you want your physical needs to be met. You want your muscles massaged. You want your back scratched (and what you don’t know yet is this: you want your entire body scratched!) You want your skin to be soothed with soft, gentle, loving touches. You want your hands held; you want your face to be lovingly caressed. And like every human being – man and woman – you want to have an explosion. The drive toward that explosion is one of the absolutely most basic drives in all of us. It is why you turned to the internet.
Fifth, you want a woman with whom you are comfortable. You want a woman with whom you can talk. You want a woman with whom you share a common history, a common background, a common basis of experiences. You want a woman that speaks your language, went to the same kinds of schools as you did, had the same kinds of friends as you had. You want a woman who looks a bit like you and who thinks a bit like you. You want a woman who reacts to the news of the day the same way that you respond. You want a mature woman more or less in your own age range! Someone who understands the ups and down of getting older!
Sixth, you want that magical spark of romance and intrigue. We all want it. We all remember forever our first love. We would all like to be able to recreate that once-in-a-lifetime feeling we had then. We all know that a large part of the excitement is the initial conquest. We certainly all know that it is hard to keep that excitement alive in a marriage over the course of years. (And we all know that the easiest way to find it again is to start a new relationship.)
No man can ever give himself an orgasm as good as a woman gives him because all those “extra” things are missing. No human being can ever tickle himself / herself. It just simply cannot be done by anyone, ever. In contrast, every human being can create an explosion for himself/herself. But not as good as one created by a beautiful woman!!
When you visit me, we should each be filled with an expectant attitude that today is going to be one of the best days ever! If you are romantic, perhaps you will have some flowers or a box of chocolates! When the door opens and we see each other for the first time, let it be magical.
Of course, I know that you will probably have some nervousness. You are meeting someone new for the first time ever and you do not know what to expect. You do not know whether all will be as it is stated. I have the same apprehension about you!